Well... I have to say I appreciate the love so far.... Now on to "grown folks business" as my partner Dave would say..... Ladies and Gents of the jury can you please answer this question for me???? Why is it when we say "We don't want a relationship" (basically a friend with benefits) that we tend to break the rules and stop "Playing our position" meaning after several encounters or so we say we want a relationship... What is that sh*t really about? On the other hand if you are steady whining and dining a person you are at fault somehow also... I've told several people on more thanone occasion the more you whine and dine someone the chances of your tires getting slashed is greater. lol.;; At the same time mofo's tend to use "sex as a weapon" which is breaking rules 1-50.... The casual dating scene would be a more peaceful place if mofo's knew how to play there position.... Every now and again it's ok to break the rules as long as it's a mutual thing not a one sided thing. There are those rare cases like myself where I married what was supposed to be my one night stand.... lolll. Now I'm divorced so how did that work out for me???? loll... Anywho... I'd like to read people thoughts on this topic... lolll...

**Disclaimer** I'm in a meaningful relationship now so most of 99.9% of my experiences are past for the record before any "Cambridge" rumors get started. lollll.

Love Always,

Mz Nan