Happy Friday Folks... Tough week with the loss of Heavy D and Smoking Joe Frazier.... RIP to both... As you can see I have a Heavy D tribute on page for those of you that are fans which is pretty much everyone I know unless you've been living under a rock lolll... I've been a Heavy D Fan since the beginning which was 1988 for me.. lolll... It's a hug loss to Hip Hop.

So without further or do I call this blog real talk because basically I'm going to talk about some real s**t that I see which I think is stupid... First on social networking sites to be more specific facebook why is it when people link up there relationships, pictures, etc they delete the whole portfolio once it's over and delete that person but still tend to talk about that person when they are not even on there page anymore???? One of the things I find f**ing stupid.... Another thing is when you catch someone cheating but you get made at the person they are cheating with and not the person you are dealing with???? I've had numerous chicks in the past call me about there man ummm you might want to check him because I didn't even know that you existed lolll Then they end up staying with the person... My personal favorite is when people get mad in there relationships they have to get a girls/boys night out (more often this is dedicated to the females just being real lollll)... Ummm you still have to go home so what is that supposed to do....loll... I know someone that use to go out with her girls and the dude went out with his boys they were both in the same club get mad cause each other is dancing with other people but still end up home together at some point in the night... What's the f***ing point in that... loll... There is none.... Another favorite is when someone is happy and doing well someone always has to steal the spotlight and proclaim to be doing something better when they're not doing sh*t...lolll... You have no audience and no one cares... lolll... One more for the road when someone is playing the side person, but they stay mad 24/7 because that person is with the main person... But feels as though every 5 minutes they have to justify there situation to others... Ummm please stage exit left now because I will never ever understand that stupid sh*t either.. loll... If it wasn't for you insecure and paranoid people I wouldn't have sh*t to write about so I thank you for this.. lolll... Too all my haters that like to knock me down and tell me I keep it semi real or not real at all *Kick Rocks* lolll.. I don't have put up fluffy quotes, statuses, tweets, etc about being real all day everyday unlike some people I know to receive cyber world recogniztion lolll.. Cyberworld isn't paying me or my bills so who gives a f**k... Speaking my mind is as real as it gets for me point blank... Like I say if you feel offended or feel this is directed towards you so be it and get over it because it probably is.... On that note.. Real Thoughts & Comments... lolllll...

Love Always,

MZ Nan

Happy Monday.... I hope everyone is doing well... Without further or do today blog is about true friendship.... As some of you know that have me on there FB page I recently posted something about true friends not knocking you down to build themselves up.... Recently I had an altercation with someone that got offended for me calling them out... Like I said in the beginning of my blog I don't care if you state your opinion about something I have no problem with that... What I do have a problem with is when you start saying things that are false... Like I said I know some of you all in real life and vice versa so if i'm saying something not real I have no problems if you call me out... Make sure it's fact and something quoted.... The majority of my friends are people that I either grew up through elementary, high school, etc or people that have crossed my path and I think they are good enough to be in the "friend" category not someone part time or what people call an "associate... Either your a friend or not point blank... I don't agree with alot of things my friends do and vice versa, but in no way would I ever disrespect them... At the end of the day I wish them all the best in whatever they do and never later on down the line throw anything in there face... Life is way too short for all the drama and negativity and personally I'm too old for that shit at this stage of the game... Most likely I will blog something else later on, but I had to touch on this subject... Comments and thoughts are welcome... How do you determine a friend from foe.... As always I'd like to thank the haters for making me who I am today I don't know where I would be without you. lollll....

Love always,

Mz Nan

Happy Tuesday all... Welcome to my first semi-celebrity blog... lolll... People that make a mockery of marriage really bothers me... Of course in the late breaking news recently of Kim K's divorce... lolll... What a surprise???? If anyone that watched the fake proposl leading up to her over hyped fairytale marriage special could see all those mofo's did was argue for 3 hours and 59 minutes of it and the only time they didn't was the 1 minute at the end when they said there I do's and being announced husband and wife... loll... If you check out the clip on my page of her and him that should say it all right there... He just seems like a miserable mofo all he does is complain and make sarcastic remarks all day... Sooner or later they are going to start making it harder to get married and even harder to get divorced because people take it as if it doesn't work out divorce like it's a casual relationship... I was married for 3 years and tried to work it out until I couldn't work it out anymore divorce wasn't in my future I never went into the marriage like that despita what some people might think or say.... One of my "friends" (Andrew Clary - It's about time I called some people out) claims I got married to get it out my system which was totally uncalled for and false period... I would've picked a totally different person to get it "out of my sytem" with and I definitely would've gotten something out of it if that was the case and it wasn't... My ex husband had a semi attitude like these hollywood mofo's cause at the end his direct quote was "I thought this was something I wanted but it's not"... What do you really say to that? My ex was married before so he had and still has alot of baggage from that one. I come from a family of lengthy marriages like my grandparents for instance that was married for over 50 years and I got married on there wedding anniversary hence why another reason I was offended by my "friends" (Andrew Clary) comments because he knows how much they meant to me.. As for Kim 72 days is not enough time to call a marriage quits, but as you know like I do ratings and money will do it everytime I guess.... Anyone that knows me knows I'm not a big promoter of going to weddings I can't bless or people that have multiple weddings... *Sidenote* This is Kim's second husband lolll... I personally couldn't see myself having another wedding inviting the same people are the first that's just a personal thing with me.... In my case I just married the wrong person. I always wish people nothing but the best even though I know at some point it will end due to certain "warning signs", but we all just have to learn from our mistakes.... Hopefully Kim won't turn into another J Lo or Halle Berry because she's almost neck and neck with them... lollll.... I won't be doing too many celebrity things but I just had to speak on this one... Thoughts and comments always appreciated..

Love Always,

Mz Nan

I know it's been a few days.... So I'll jump right into it lol... Parents vs Friends... I'm not a parent and will never be one lolll... But I do have a young mother and I can't understand this trend of parents being best friends with there children????? Can someone explain to me what that is about???? *Sidenote* I'm not clubbing with my mother, I'm not drinking with my mother, I'm not sharing personal/intimate details about my social life with my mother, etc... I know someone that dayum near wanted to jump off a bridge because there kid was going away to school 20 minutes away because they were use to hanging out with kid like it was one of her girls..... WTF... I don't even feel comfortable having a social drink in a social setting when my mother is there let alone going to a bar drinking with her... I don't even get a drink when we go out to dinner lollll... That's just me... I'm not here to judge it's just my opinion... There's nothing wrong with having that friendly type of relationship with your parent but you have to draw the line somewhere.... I was married to one of these people that was best friends with the kids go out partying with the son and daughter and go to the bars with them.... Ummm negative.... I couldn't get with that one at all nor will I ever understand it... I'm not interested in my mother sharing her personal details with me either all set, but some people have that type of relationship more power to them it just couldn't be me.... Some people wonder why some of there kids turn out certain ways or act certain ways because you never set those boundaries... Again just my opinion.... I definitely like to hear thoughts and comments from you parents out there... lollll

Love Always,

Mz Nan

Happy Tuesday Everyone... I figured I'd give you all a day to get over the "Monday Blues"... The topic of discusson today is why do you feel the need to have a "press conference" with your friends/family about your current relationship... Then you want to get mad when he or she f**ks them... loll... Ummm what's that really about???? If you have issues with the person that you are with day in and day out why wouldn't you discuss the issues with him or her rather than someone that doesn't live in your house. Also the person you confide in 90% of the time isn't a person that should be giving advice anyways because they are in a f**ed up relationship/situation themselves.... That's why I always say unless the person is doing better than me or learned from past mistakes I don't take their advice for anything all set.. lolll... Lot's of people tried to volunteer there advice or thoughts with me and all I say is my infamous line "Thanks for Sharing" because they were definitely in no position to judge or talk like most people I know...I might know a handful of people that I would consider even listening too... I guess as long as you have all the outings, keep pouring the wine/moscato/nuvo/ciroc, etc you'll have a bunch of bitter ass mofo's that will always be willing to listen and advise... I can get the same results having a conversation with my dayum self and don't have to worry about the surrounding drama or being a topic of conversation... Let me know your thoughts and comments on this one.... lol... As always...

Love,

Mz Nan

Happy Sunday.... Hopefully you all had a good weekend I know some of you all are complaining about going to work tomorrow because the weekend went too fast... lolll... Get over it or get another job... lolll... Anyways todays topic of discussion is Fact vs Fiction... Another topic near and dear to my heart lollll... I have the upmost respect for people that have gone to college, own there home, and have a good job. What I don't respect is when people try to throw it in your face like they are better than you... I've owned a house, had a brand new car, went to business school (not college), and been married I guess lived the American Dream minus the kids lollll... I definitely never thought I was better than anyone not even a little bit. For some people that's there only topic of conversation what they have or have done, but can't afford a #1 at mcdonalds or still have to borrow money to make ends meet... Again this is why I laugh when I am social networking and see some of things that people say and I say to myself WTF.... Any of my real friends are not my friends because of what I've had or have and if they are your true friends or family they won't care they'll just support you no matter what.... and always remember I know some of you in real life lolll I can't stress that enough... You all can convince your fan club, but I know the real deal... Also another thing followers will get nowhere either. Just because your friend/family is doing something and you decide to do it also doesn't mean it'll work for you. I tend to see alot of that going on as well... I'm glad I'm my own person and could care less what anyone thinks (That's also what kept me in trouble as a kid lollll)... Just be true to yourself and rest will follow... Thoughts or Comments.... Enjoy your day.....

Love Always,

MZ Nan

TGIF Mofo's... I'm sure some of you are getting ready to hit the club or have your weekly "meeting in the ladies room or boys club"... lolll.... My topic for today might be a sensitive subject for some of you. As you know I don't give a f**k... lol... I'm going to need some commentary on this one Fantasy vs Reality. Why is it people especially on social networking sites nowadays make people think there life is a thousand times better than what it really is???? Everyday I'm on facebook and twitter I see some of these status updates and say to myself WTFFF especially when I know some of you mofo's in real life... My personal favorite is when the relationship statuses start changing to it's complicated (still can't figure that one out just fuggin stupid) to it's single... Now I've been in a relationship for a year in a half and hasn't so much put a pic of him yet not that there's anything wrong with it... My reality is just real and I don't need to justify to anyone in the world especially strangers unlike some of you all your fantasy is your reality... Like I always say if you just keep it real there wouldn't be so much unecessary drama and stress in the world... I also like when people are dr jekyll on facebook and mr hyde on twitter... We all have our good and bad days but dayum.... I just want to give a little bit of advice when your fantasy life is so "perfect" to the whole social networking world then it comes crashing down (because obviously it wasn't all that perfect lol) you look like a real asshole then you become this keep it real advocate and you are going to start living your life for you blah blah blah.... Then comes things are going to be different in the following year because you changed to be this better person... lolllll... Can you please just stop with bullshit????? It makes my eyes bleed when I read that nonsense... lollll... I love the entertainment that I get on a daily bases from social networking... lolll.. It makes the day go by quicker and of course gives me material for my blogs among other things.....lolll.... I'm sure if something pops up later I'll be blogging it until then... Thoughts and comments are appreciated... Enjoy your weekend...

Love Always,

Mz Nan